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Alex

Mentor · 19

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Hey — I went through something really similar. Happy to talk whenever 😊

That would mean a lot. Things at home have been really hard.

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I get it. Take your time, I'm here 💙

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Alex

Age 19 · Mentor

My parents split when I was 14. I spent two years feeling like I had to pick sides. I didn't know anyone else going through it — I just want to be that person for someone else.

Custody battleNew step-familyFinancial hardship
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Jamie

Age 17 · Mentor

Being the go-between for my parents was exhausting. I learned how to set boundaries and protect my own mental health. I'm here for anyone who feels stuck in the middle.

Parental alienationFeeling like the middlemanHigh-conflict divorce
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Sam

Age 20 · Mentor

We moved three times in two years after my parents divorced. Starting over at a new school while dealing with everything at home was really hard. I made it through and I want to help others do the same.

Relocation / moving schoolsNew step-familyLong-distance from a parent